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Let’s face it - sometimes our hormones get us, well, horny, at a time or place where a slow seduction just isn’t possible.  Sometimes, dammit, we still want to act on those urges.  Enter the quickie: a fast way to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ahh, outdoor sex: it's one of the greatest perks of warmer weather and the reason we're so glad that summer is finally here.  There's something completely energizing about the feeling of sex in the fresh air, and nothing quite so naughty as the feeling that you could get caught.

Oh, anal sex. It's one of the most taboo sex acts but it can also be one of the most pleasurable, if you do it right. For those of you dipping a toe into the water, we're sharing the top 8 commandments of anal sex.

It's ten p.m. and you're tired after the end of a long day, but your partner has that look in their eyes that you know means there's no sleep happening just yet.  Rather than try something new and exciting in the bedroom, you fall back on the same tried and true moves to get results.

You look up, smile in anticipation, and flick your finger against the slippery surface just so.  Sounds like the start of a good sex fantasy, but instead it’s the reality of life playing Pokemon GO.

Obviously having sex ranks high on our list of favorite things, and we're of the opinion that it's hard to have too much of such a delicious activity. If you're into having a heart-pounding good time and want to have sex more frequently, you're going to first want to get your heart pounding in another way.

For most guys, any blow job is better than no blow job (except for the one guy I met in college who told me that he thought blow jobs were degrading. Needless to say, he didn't get one.) That being said, taking your skills to the next level can be a total game-changer.

You may have heard of the five love languages, but did you know there are sex languages?  Both ideas trade on a kind of "platinum rule": you can strengthen your relationships if you can learn how to treat others the way they want to be treated.

You guys.  RWA2016, shorthand for the annual conference put on by the Romance Writers of America organization, came to a close last week and not only did the conference look like an amazing meet up, it had us adding a whole slew of new books to our reading list.

This week at Penchant we're all about exercise and its sweaty, sexy benefits.  First we discussed the "coregasm" and how to get one, and today we're talking about some exercises you can do as a couple to rev your heart rates and get you ready for a roll in the hay.