Here at Penchant we are firmly against lube-shaming.  Not only can lube enhance the sex you’re already having and improve certain experiences (hello hand-jobs and anal), it can supplement a woman’s natural lubrication when hers is lacking.  There are so many reasons a woman might not be getting wet during sex that are out of her control – hormones, prescription medication, and stress to name a few.  The experts over at Your Tango have a full roundup of reasons you might not be getting wet and for both men and women the list is worth a read.  By finding the root of your problem you  may be able to take certain measures to improve your health, and keep in mind that at the end of the day every woman’s body is different.  Our favorite suggestion for what to do when you’re not getting wet?  Grab your favorite lube and hit the sheets without shame.  Once you give lube a try, there’s no going back.