Which of the 5 Sex Languages Do You Speak?
You may have heard of the five love languages, but did you know there are sex languages? Both ideas trade on a kind of "platinum rule": you can strengthen your relationships if you can learn how to treat others the way they want to be treated.
Translated into the bedroom, this means making love to your partner in the way that they crave. If you can identify which sex language each of you speaks, it allows you to take full advantage and incorporate moves and acts that you both desire. This can lead to a steamy sex life where you both feel satisfied. It sounds like a win to us!
Dr. Doug Weiss, in his book 5 Sex Languages, explores each of 5 sex languages in detail: Fun, Desire, Patience, Pleasure, and Acceptance/Celebration. PopSugar.com has the full breakdown of each language, so be sure to head over to find which language you speak.
If you find that you and your partner have different sex languages, don't worry! Use the sex languages as a guide to help you experiment in the bedroom and then ask your partner for feedback. As with anything, communication is key. Get ready for a smoking love life.