At any given time there are a ton of things competing for your attention and brain space: the latest project at work, social obligations, what to eat for dinner...the list goes on.  While it’s easy to get caught up in the rush, when the thought of sex crosses your mind, we highly suggest spend a few minutes focusing on this subject.  Here are three of our favorite reasons to put those thoughts of sex at the forefront.  

1. It primes the pump. Women often turn down sex if they’re not in the mood, but thinking about sex builds a ton of anticipation, helping you be more receptive to your partner’s advances.  Thinking about sex can also help you get into a frisky mindframe more easily on those days you’re not feeling your hottest.
2. You’re more likely to follow through.  If you’ve been fantasizing about your partner all day, by the end of the night you’re going to want to act on those thoughts.  Not only is more frequent sex a happy result, when you initiate sex it can be a huge turn-on for your partner.  Either way, it’s a win.
3. It makes you more creative.  Daydreaming as a whole promotes creativity, and when you’re thinking about sex, you might just be inspired to act on those ideas.  Thinking about sex allows you to visualize intimate moments that you’d like to try out, making it easier to enact them later.  If your daydreams make you want to add something different to your love life, be sure to read our primer on how to introduce new things in bed, and try our favorite lubes.

Happy daydreaming, friends.