It’s easy to see why the hand job is often overlooked - unlike oral sex, it’s something he can do himself.  That being said, it’s well worth mastering this trick in the bedroom.  It’s way, way hotter if you’re the one holding the reins, and there are surefire ways to give a hand job that will blow his mind.  

In particular, we really like the tips over at YourTango, but there’s one critical thing they’re missing from the list - lube!  Sex without lubrication isn't much fun, so it comes as no surprise that a hand job without lubrication isn't much fun either.  While with oral sex your saliva acts as a natural lubricant, a hand job doesn’t have the same benefits.  The key is to add a few drops of your favorite lube to your session, to increase sensation and make a whole world of pleasure.  Read the article and then be sure to pick up a bottle of either our favorite silicone lube or our new water-based lube to enhance the experience.